Why I Pay $2/Month for Email (And You Should Too)

“Why would I pay for email when Gmail is free?”

This question always makes me laugh. It’s like asking “Why would I pay for food when I can eat at the free buffet where they photograph everything I eat and sell those photos to insurance companies?”

Gmail isn’t free. You’re paying the highest price possible: your digital soul.

Let me tell you the exact moment I realized this.

The Day Gmail Read My Love Letters

Three years ago, I was planning a surprise anniversary trip for my wife. Coordinating with hotels, checking restaurant availability, booking flights - all through Gmail.

Then I opened my phone and saw targeted ads for:

• The exact hotel I’d been emailing
• Restaurants in the city we were visiting
• “Romantic getaway packages”

Google had read every intimate detail of my anniversary planning and turned my love into advertising revenue.

That night, I realized: I wasn’t Gmail’s customer. I was Gmail’s inventory.

What “Free” Email Actually Costs

Let’s be brutally honest about what Google gets from your “free” email:

Every email you send or receive - content, timing, frequency, attachments
Everyone in your contact list - your entire social and professional network
Your communication patterns - when you’re active, who you talk to most, what you care about
Your location data - where you email from, travel confirmations, location-based services
Your purchase history - receipts, confirmations, shipping notifications
Your health information - appointment confirmations, prescription notifications
Your financial data - bank alerts, payment confirmations, investment updates
Your personal relationships - who you email late at night, family communications, romantic correspondence

All of this gets processed by AI and used to build advertising profiles that follow you across the entire internet.

The Real Comparison

The $3/Month Dignity Test

Here’s what I get from Fastmail for $3/month (less than one coffee):

Actual Email Service:

• Email that works without analyzing my content
• Clean interface focused on communication, not ads
• Reliable delivery without algorithmic filtering
• My conversations stay between me and who I’m talking to

Real Customer Treatment:

• Human support when I need help
• Service that improves based on user needs, not advertiser demands
• Transparent pricing with no hidden surveillance costs
• I’m the customer, not the product

Digital Independence:

• I own my email address (@mydomainname.com)
• I can move to any provider without losing my identity
• My email works even when I’m not profitable to advertisers
• My digital identity belongs to me

The Psychology of “Free”

We’ll pay $7 for coffee without thinking twice, but $3/month for email feels expensive.

Why?

Because surveillance capitalism has trained us to expect digital services to be “free.” We’ve been conditioned to think communication, storage, and software should cost us nothing.

But everything has a cost. With Gmail, you pay with intimate surveillance. With Fastmail, you pay with money.

I’d rather pay with money. At least then I know what the transaction is.

Your Email, Your Digital Foundation

Email isn’t just communication - it’s the foundation of your entire digital identity.

• Every account you create uses your email
• Password resets go to your email
• Important notifications come to your email
• Your email IS your digital identity

When you don’t control your email, you don’t control your digital life.

The Network Effect Myth

“But everyone uses Gmail! I have to use it to communicate!”

This is like saying you need a Ford to drive on roads. Email is an open standard - Gmail users can email Fastmail users just fine. The protocol doesn’t care what provider you use.

The real reason people stick with Gmail isn’t network effects. It’s learned helplessness.

We’ve been convinced that we can’t manage our own email, so we might as well let Google do it and accept whatever surveillance they require.

The Test That Changes Everything

Try this experiment: Pay for your digital services for one month.

• Email: $3/month (Fastmail, ProtonMail, Hey)
• Cloud storage: $5/month (your terms, not theirs)
• VPN: $5/month (actual privacy)
• Password manager: $3/month (security you control)

That’s $16/month total - less than two streaming services.

In exchange, you get:

• Services that work FOR you, not AGAINST you
• Customer support when things break
• No surveillance business model
• Actual ownership of your digital tools

Taking the First Step

You don’t have to revolutionize your entire digital life overnight. Start with email.

1. Pick a paid email provider (Fastmail, ProtonMail, Hey - all excellent)
2. Set up your new account with your own domain if possible
3. Forward Gmail to your new email for a few weeks
4. Gradually migrate your accounts to the new address
5. Experience what it feels like to have email that serves you

After one month, ask yourself: Why was I ever okay with the surveillance alternative?

The Bigger Picture

This isn’t really about email. It’s about how we relate to technology.

Do we want to be customers with agency, or products being consumed?

When you pay for email, you’re voting for a different relationship with digital tools. One where you have rights, expectations, and control.

One where technology serves human dignity instead of undermining it.

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Ready to experience technology that serves you instead of surveilling you? Join the movement for digital dignity.